Well the title may seem directly lifted from a booze commercial but I say this to myself every time life gives me a lesson. You know whenever we become arrogant enough to think that we have figured out mostly what life is that we get a new lesson and the problem with life is that it takes your exam before it gives you the lesson and you know exams they are never easy. However what matter at the end is that we get our lessons. Well this post is not about my latest lesson but about life in general.
Life is the best thing we have and its up to us what we make of it. It is governed by random laws beyond our control but we still have to live it the way best we can. Life will be unfair at times but no fun complaining about it. It is a game with ever changing rules so we just need to accept whatever it gives us but never stop trying. It will take from us the few things we love and at times will give limitless joy from small things. It gives us sweet memories to cherish, dreaded incidents to scare, warm hugs and cold looks, bright sunshine and cloudy days, great friends and fierce competitors but whatever it gives its for us to accept and do the best with it. People, relations, thought beliefs and values all change with time. It’s just that we should never curse anything that happened whether it was our first crush or the first heart break. Whatever flows with time never comes back and it’s just about taking something from it and moving ahead. Everything that I lost in the past was never mine and what I got is my gift.
I always believed life is a one act play and we all have different roles to play. An Industrialist plays a different role than a poor farmer but neither of them is big or small they are all artist in this world stage. What it boils down to is that we should play our part to perfection. We will have our flaws and our gifts but we need to make the best role for ourselves from it so as life happens to us we can look at its eyes and live it fully. But lets chill now as Van wilder said," Lets not take life so seriously, after all no one came alive out of it".
If you ask me what is the most single most important aspect that determines the fate of any relationship I can bet my ass on Honesty. Relationships are based on mutual respect and belief and when we are not honest with each other the relationship will not last for long. We may love the person with our heart but if we are afraid to speak the truth with that person then its not only disrespectful to that person but undermines the relationship. I understand when we start a new relationship we generally want to impress the other person with all our positive qualities and don't reveal everything about ourselves very quickly. I also agree as long as the other person is comfortable one does not have to bring up unfortunate events from the past. However once we are in a stable relationship one must be truthful to each other. We tend to lie to hide something and it indicates that we are afraid of something. Fear can have very bad effect on health of a relationship. It better to come out of ...
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lol!!
nice post man!!
so live life to the fullest fuck the rest!! That's my P.O.V. man!!
Bull's eye definition about life!
You were so general, yet so specific!!
great going!!!
I truly identified with it. Life has given me some hard lessons, but it has also provided some great moments.
I think learning from life is very important but taking it too seriously and beating the crap out of one's mind is totally illogical.
Again good post man.
very well written, your words and sentences were just flowing.
keep it up:)
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